If anybody here blames their parents for having no confidence to ask girls out...

[Happyjuice]

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[Samurai Clinton]

If I had a relationship, I wouldn't persevere with stealthy departures from my house to go to spur-of-the-moment parties, now would I?

I even went through a phase of going to bars, all because I had this spur-of-the-moment/planned-opportunity hybrid lifestyle. In other words, I tried to have what I needed for a spur-of-the-moment opportunity to go well, but these opportunities sadly dwindled with people being jerks to me.

Well, my perseverance of going to the bar ended all because of this LOUD MUSIC intolerance.

You know, spur-of-the-moment opportunities don't work out when you don't have what it takes. Some people would rather bail on others over a "car broke down" than just ride a bike if one was available (especially when the party is less than 5 miles away from home), or just find a friend to drive them.

seizures, embarrassed around parents, shitty job market, people with no will to go the extra mile to just say they will sympathize with somebody's shortcomings, how much worse could it get?

Its a paradox how I just wanna do one thing to a girl, but yet I don't feel authorized to do so. In which the aformentioned situations lead me to feel socially marooned.

I also think its creepy how the WORST NIGHTCLUBS in reality are perceived to be the BEST NIGHTCLUBS by pathetic losers. It may just be a matter of opinion, but my standards on dancing with music are based on convincing examples of this so-called "dance music" house movement of the 90s; whereas the others are just downright willing to dance to shit music, all because it is popular; what a deceitful difference that is in the "dance music market". I think I have said some things about my fixation with girls (only because of some things), and my fixations with dancing and music; along with my fixation with the fact that guys dance with girls. But now since I realized I am only embarrassed half the time, it isn't even worth my time to dance with any girl. I mean, fuck farts; why is it that most men (and/or the woman) have a good time in the ballroom, whereas for me I have this "defense mode" in my nervous system with a atmosphere like nightclubs and ballrooms.

Basically what I said describes a "fixation with a paradox and bad results"

[NearHi]

Maybe you're looking in the wrong places for girls.
Try going out to a local art walk or first Friday. Maybe volunteer at your local youth theatre and try to meet people there.

The bar/party/club scene doesn't seem to work for you, so try something else.

[Samurai Clinton]

Originally Posted by Bryce Farlow

Maybe you're looking in the wrong places for girls.
The bar/party/club scene doesn't seem to work for you, so try something else.

I'm willing to try out new things an all, but sometimes just one misguided social butterfly will cancel out the whole operation.

If only others were willing to try out new things, they would think outside the box from this "lets follow suit" garbage which I resent since I am under the impression of more serious concepts that others take for granted.

I "think outside the box" because sometimes feeling "locked out" from the social network can prioritize line of thought toward more creative things, in which not even those warrant earned charisma all that effectively. For example I get charisma because of a bicycle mod, whereas the charisma somebody gets behind a microphone is just "empty charisma".

I have a sneaking suspicion on the value of life.

[NearHi]

Fuck everyone else.
You do what YOU need to do.

[Samurai Clinton]

When it comes to the clubbing scene, the girls would rather shove their boobs into the guys' chests than dance politely (ballroom style). I think this is just a paradox that forms a thin line between "sexual enough to turn a guy on" and "indecent enough to repel the wise, sensible ones away".

But I have certain social policies that avoid similar gambles with grim paradoxes.

[Lord Blazer]

I'd rather they shove their boobs into me, too.

[Samurai Clinton]

Originally Posted by Lord Blazer

I'd rather they shove their boobs into me, too.

Then, in that case, you'd prefer covertly sexual dancing over polite ballroom-grade dancing.

But either way, its just wrong how they favor pathetic losers over wise, sensible men. Drunkness is no excuse to "brighten up your day".

It also shows how spoiled I am that shit that brighens up peoples' day is obviously ineffective for my criteria. Thats the irony of rich vs. poor, that whatever is a blessing for the poor is almost nothing to a rich person. But if somebody were to realize that irony, then they'd know how important it is to donate.

I am here spewing segues to this conversation, all because I feel insulted by cheap cop outs on clubbing.

[Lord Blazer]

I'm gonna go donate money to my local indie radio stations.

Good call, Clinton.

[Slime]

YOU SAID YOU WERE GOING TO SLEEP

LIAR

[NearHi]

Originally Posted by Samurai Clinton

Then, in that case, you'd prefer covertly sexual dancing over polite ballroom-grade dancing.

But either way, its just wrong how they favor pathetic losers over wise, sensible men. Drunkness is no excuse to "brighten up your day".

It also shows how spoiled I am that shit that brighens up peoples' day is obviously ineffective for my criteria. Thats the irony of rich vs. poor, that whatever is a blessing for the poor is almost nothing to a rich person. But if somebody were to realize that irony, then they'd know how important it is to donate.

I am here spewing segues to this conversation, all because I feel insulted by cheap cop outs on clubbing.

THEN STOP GOING TO CLUBS!!
Get into your tux and tail and go to a formal dance and ballroom dance to your hearts content.
If you're so pissed off at the scene you're in then CHANGE!
You're like a dog, belly-up, pissin' on itself that doesn't want to roll over but continues to whine about how it's gettin pissed on!
For God's sake, if you don't like bar music, DON'T GO TO THE BARS. If you don't like "sexually-charged" women, THEN GO TO CHURCH! If you don't like club music, STOP GOING TO THE CLUBS! If you don't like drinking, THEN STOP GOING TO LIQUOR ESTABLISHMENTS!
If you're steppin' on a nail, and it hurts, then lift your goddamned foot!

You're a smart and talented boy, Clinton, you need to start recognizing that, change your ways, get into a different group, and get recognized.

START YOUR OWN BAND!
Find other bike enthusiasts.
Go to a retro, funk party.
Go to a formal dance.

YOU ARE THE LEADER OF YOU!
YOU CONTROL YOU!
Stop fighting the things you don't have control over and stop letting them control you and take charge.

Otherwise, you'll never be happy.

[Slime]

Clinton, you building that bike was like the coolest Clinton thing. you just need to keep doing things that interest you, rather than criticizing "normal" society for the lame things that it promotes. i'm a complete fucking weirdo, but i don't endlessly criticize society for being "normal", i just do weird things.