How do people get married to unattractive folk?

OmniromX · 02-10-2022, 05:13 AM

Hello, three of my friends got married to women who are overweight and I think are unattractive. I don't understand how a man could do that??? Does that mean I am vain? I don't comprehend??!/??

Old Rivers · 02-10-2022, 06:09 AM

Are the three friends overweight / unattractive?

Kane · 02-10-2022, 06:47 AM

Fat women try harder and are less likely to be able to cheat. Maybe your friends are smart

OmniromX · 10:14 AM

No, Mr. Old River, my friends are not unattractive/overweight.

They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I would think what men find beautiful is pretty universal. That leads me to conclude that my friends either: a.) Don't adhere to this universal idea of beauty and find their mates beautiful, or b.) They don't find their mates beautiful physically but still married them. Both of these possibilities just seem bewildering, hence why I made this thread.

Kane, your theory is very interesting and seems to be supported by research. According to a study done at Harvard University, beautiful people's marriages lasted shorter than the uglugs' marriages. (source). I'm not sure how valid/reliable these studies are.

Kane · 02-10-2022, 10:06 AM

Ignore the studies, Omnirom!! Go out, get yourself a fatty and get some first hand experience.

Dungeon Snake · 02-10-2022, 03:45 PM

I'd have to know your friends to understand what's happening. Maybe they have low self esteem, and/or limited experience with women? Or maybe these women bullied them into getting married. it's hard to say.

I Am Your God · 02-10-2022, 09:29 PM

Get rich, Omnirom

02-10-2022, 05:13 AM	#1
OmniromX Member Join Date: Sep 2013 Posts: 824	How do people get married to unattractive folk? Hello, three of my friends got married to women who are overweight and I think are unattractive. I don't understand how a man could do that??? Does that mean I am vain? I don't comprehend??!/??
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02-10-2022, 06:47 AM	#3
Kane Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2020 Posts: 1,096	Fat women try harder and are less likely to be able to cheat. Maybe your friends are smart
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02-10-2022, 07:26 AM	#4
OmniromX Member Join Date: Sep 2013 Posts: 824	No, Mr. Old River, my friends are not unattractive/overweight. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I would think what men find beautiful is pretty universal. That leads me to conclude that my friends either: a.) Don't adhere to this universal idea of beauty and find their mates beautiful, or b.) They don't find their mates beautiful physically but still married them. Both of these possibilities just seem bewildering, hence why I made this thread. Kane, your theory is very interesting and seems to be supported by research. According to a study done at Harvard University, beautiful people's marriages lasted shorter than the uglugs' marriages. (source). I'm not sure how valid/reliable these studies are.
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02-10-2022, 10:06 AM	#5
Kane Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2020 Posts: 1,096	Ignore the studies, Omnirom!! Go out, get yourself a fatty and get some first hand experience.
Kane Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2020 Posts: 1,096

02-10-2022, 06:09 AM	#2
Old Rivers Super Moderator Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 6,985	Are the three friends overweight / unattractive?

02-10-2022, 03:45 PM	#6
Dungeon Snake Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 17,519	I'd have to know your friends to understand what's happening. Maybe they have low self esteem, and/or limited experience with women? Or maybe these women bullied them into getting married. it's hard to say.

02-10-2022, 09:29 PM	#7
I Am Your God Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2018 Posts: 374	Get rich, Omnirom